HOW TO WIN A WOMAN’S TRUST

Trust is key and essential in any relationship that must work. Trust is earned and not just given, however the breach or betrayal of trust ends up doing untold harm to relationships especially between opposite sex, that is why it is important that it exists in the first place and be maintained all through. Trust is a matter of commitment, because you have work for it, it doesn’t just fall on your laps considering the fact that we are humans and a number of factors can influence our actions and inaction. However, here are few tips on how to win a woman’s trust, but I must warn if you are not serious about the relationship there is no point dabbling into it in the first place, because women are made of delicate materials and are easily heartbroken and knowing fully that they are emotional beings. It is sometimes difficult to win a woman’s trust especially after series of ugly experience of the past, but this will help:

Don’t be in a rush to make promises

A lot of time we are compelled to making promises we rather not fulfill this is because we never consider if it were attainable in the first instance and as such leaving the trust bestowed upon us hanging in the balance. If you are not certain about fulfilling a promise why not admit, instead of promising. It is better to say I am not promising however I will try and at the end of the day you come through than making and breaking promises every now and then. The bottom line is that when you are in the habit of making and breaking promises, less will be thought of your integrity. I’m not saying don’t make promises, but when making try as much as you can to fulfill them, when you do this and one doesn’t come through, you will be excused.

Be a man of your words

This is the easiest way to earn trust. Nobody will want to trust a liar, it speaks ill of such an individual’s personality. Try as much as possible to tell the truth no matter how ugly or hurtful it sounds. I have come to discover that telling the truth only help in quickening the healing process of how ugly a situation can get and a better appreciation of embracing the truth of the matter at an early stage. When invited for a function and you know deep down you can’t make it, it is better to admit than to raise high hopes only to dash them later. When you say you are going to call by 10 am, ensure that you call at the exact time, when you keep at it, you are building a solid foundation you are not aware of, when you book appointments always ensure you are strict about them and keep them even when she keeps you waiting, that way you are warming your way into her heart without even knowing it.

Be Predictable

No woman will trust a man whose next line of action she can’t predict. Did I just strike a chord? Ever heard ladies conversing about their spouse? They be like: I know what he is going to say the moment I get home late, or when I cook late and Blah! Blah! Blah! It makes them comfortable thinking they know your next move like in the game of cheese. It is easier for a woman to trust a man who she knows when he is angry, serious, sad, and happy or even when he is going to decline a request even before asking him and since they feel you are predictable, it is natural to assume they have the situation under control. I believe that even you would not want to trust a chameleon.

Work on Trust

It is not just okay to win trust, but it is equally important to maintain it at all times, because it has the tendency of fading away like a vapor. Working to maintain trust a lot of time will save you a lot of stress in your relationship.

I trust it these few tips will help bring the much desired spark in that relationship and in case you haven’t walk down the aisle yet, I’m looking forward to it.

Chal Pals